“Familiar faces in new places.” There is a thrill to seeing someone you know in a new
place. Metaphorically, it can
carry over to seeing them in a new context or new “light.” A bond takes shape instantly, tied to
(of all things) a place. That
thrill is amplified many fold when that person you see, walking down the dock,
is someone you love. I felt
something in me relax into Tyler’s arms as we hugged each other on the
dock. I was in the arms of someone
who knows me likely more than anyone else. I was in the arms of someone to whom and with whom my
instincts tell me with an incredible certainty that i belong. Not in a sense of ownership. A living thing can't be owned, it is its own. But this belonging is in a sense of presence and relief. And belonging? IS a big deal. I so look forward to living closer to
my son. To being able to meet him
for lunch. What profound luck that
i get to make that my priority.
And i apologize to my parents for having moved so far away from them for
most of my life. I could not have
known this…until now.
Ty arrives very fresh from finals in micro-biology and physics. Whew! Kristin arrived with him. No, they aren’t a “couple.” In fact, this crew is mostly new to each other and they're the youngest crew combo
this trip will see. She is already
a sailor. She just took her
captain’s test and hopes to return home to her license and teaching sailing. I like being able to assume that she
knows how to tie a bowline, and what needs to happen to tack, and how to
trim. And i like how taking the
helm (tho she’s only a head taller than it) is easy for her. She’s “got game,” so to speak. She came to play and doesn’t
hesitate. Meanwhile, Reed has
proven to be a quick study, picking up the language and trim and life aboard handily.
So i’ve got good crew for a challenging 740nm leg, with careful navigational in the Bahamas, and a 3 to 400 mile jump to Puerto Rico. Stowing some $300 in groceries, we're as ready as we're gonna be.
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